Busy but bratty!

Well....We have been very busy lately as we are moving in a few months and we have a great deal to sort out as you can imagine! My non bratty phase has now lasted for what seems like months, i think it actually is about 3 months now but i can now feel bratty returning!

I am going to have to be very careful though as we have a free weekend ahead of us and so SirDD is free all weekend to carry out any punishments if I do anything wrong this week......am trying to hold bratty back but it is so hard! SirDD is at work today and I have a day off and i am trying not to send bratty texts!

Lets hope bratty stays away for a bit longer.......though I doubt it!!!!

Princess x

I'm Back!!!

Well, after a break from blogging I am now back and everything is fine. We are moving in a few months so we have so much to do! It has now been months since I have been bratty and it is a really odd feeling as I have been used to playing up quite often! So the good phase is continuing!

SirDD and I agreed that most of the problem we have when we argue is down to communication issues which we are working on.

Welcome to all of you who are following my blog, the support really does mean a lot to me!

Princess.x

A break

Following on from my post yesterday I have decided to take a break whilst I work out what is happening in our relationship. Thank you for all your comments and I hope to be back blogging soon.

Princess xxx

Help! Advice please!

SirDD and I have now been together a year yesterday and everything is great except.......I found out he lied about something. I won't go into it, it was a small thing but he knows that the one thing that I cannot stand is anyone who lies, it really is my pet hate.

So, I etxt him and told him that I found out he had lied and expected his response to be, 'i'm sorry, I know you hate liars, I love you and know this kind of thing hurts you and I will not do it again'. Alas, no, I got a load of txts saying he had not done anything wrong and what a bad nasty person I thought he was'.

What the hell..........I know from speaking to people that he hates being caught out. The lie itself isn't as important as the fact that he did it! And not admitting it even when caught out! I have no idea how to handle it, and clearly he cannot admit when he is wrong and apologise for it!

Also he tried the stop it or I will spank you remark.....so I can't voice an opinion without fear of getting spanked? How wrong is that. I find out he has lied and threatens to spank me.....using DD to his own advantage I think.

I know he cheated several times in his last marriage and even when caught out blamed it on something else, should this small lie be a warning sign to me? We are getting married next year and it would break my heart if he lied to me in the future.

Any advice would be much appreciated,

Princess x

So....still being very good!!!!

I am continuing my being good phase, in fact I am being so well behaved at the moment that SirDD has decided that we are no longer going to do maintenance! Yeah!!! Though I have been warned that if I become bratty again that it will start up again!

As you all know I go through phases of being bratty and being good...we will see how long this good phase lasts for!

Princess x

Being Good!

It seems that I am once again going through a phase of being very good! This does happen every now and then...believe it or not! I am not even feeling slightly bratty and havn't been for quite a while. I wonder how long this good phase will last for. We were due to have maintenance this week but as yet we havn't......maybe SirDD thinks I don't need it anymore??? We will see as we have a busy weekend coming up and there won't be much time for it anyway...delayed until next week maybe???? We will have to wait and see......

Princess x

Daddy!!!

Something has occurred to me over the last few weeks. As I have mentioned before apart from DD we also have a Daddy Daughter dynamic to our relationship. To start with this was a very small part of our relationship but it seems now that it has become as important as Domestic Discipline.

I have noticed that although I call SirDD Sir occasionally, I now call SirDD Daddy most of the time. I was wondering why this could be??? As with Domestic Discipline and with many other our relationship is always evolving and changing for the better and perhaps this is just a natural progression? Maybe, as we have now been with each other a year we have just settle into this and become more comfortable with each other.

SirDD hasn't changed what he calls me, I will always be his Princess!

Anyone else experienced any of these changes, has your relationship changed into something you were not expecting? Over to you!

Princess x

A change

Sometimes in Domestic Discipline you have to admit when something isn't working. SirDD and I have discussed the issue of me always forgetting to do a diary entry. I just can't seem to remember it! So we have changed things slightly. Instead of doing a diary entry I am now going to do at least one blog a week.

Hopefully I will remember to do this as I am often on the computer! Let's see what happens!

Princess x

Sex and Punishment by SirDD

I know Princess has mentioned this before but I thought I might say a few words on the difference between DD and sex, as far as we are concerned within our relationship.

As I have said before, Domestic Discipline was new to me when I met Princess and we have now gotten our DD relationship to a point where it is how we want it to be......for now......maybe, because as we all know DD is a forever changing dynamic.

We have always separated sex and punishment, that is not to say that when princess is laid over me almost half naked ready for a spanking that it doesn't have an effect, I am only human after all and very much in love with this beautiful woman, but when I am punishing Princess I am in the frame of mind that I will not take any hassle and I intend to ensure that the punishment is carried out properly for maximum effect.
This means that we have deliberately kept the two separated, so as not to cross or blur any lines. Punishment is not supposed to be nice and sex is not supposed to be a punishment.

We know that other couples get turned on by the punishment aspect and we know that it could do so for us as well, but we are happier with our way as it helps to keep things clear.

So does sex come into your DD relationship as a part of punishment, does punishment turn you on? I welcome your thoughts.

SirDD

Here goes.........

So this week I got in loads of trouble! Long story but have now got a spanking to come next week on Monday plus maintenance on Wednesday! Not going to be good. Plus I have 2 essays to do this week! WHY do i do this to myself!!!!!!

Princess.x